What makes you respect another person?
什么品质能取得你的尊重?
获得38.9k好评的回答@Derek Stark:
1.They Dress Well - I’m not someone to judge someone for a brand they wear, but I do take notice of a guy or gal who consistently looks fly. My dad used to tell me to dress for the job I desire, not the job I have. I think that applies here.
1.穿着得体——我并不是靠衣服的牌子看人,但的确会特别注意一直穿着时髦的男生女生。我父亲过去告诉我:穿衣,是为了得到你想得到的工作,而不是为现有些工作穿的,我感觉非常有道理。
2.They’re in Good Shape - It’s really difficult to hit the gym or go for a run following a long day at work. That’s why I have profound respect for individuals who are disciplined and keep themselves in great shape.
2.身材好——一天长期的工作之后非常难再坚持去健身俱乐部或跑步,这就是为何我十分尊重自律而且身材维持得好的人。
3.They Smile/Greet Strangers - Strangers can quickly become acquaintances, friends and potentially even more. I respect people who go out of their way to acknowledge strangers in a positive manner!
3.微笑/跟陌生人打招呼——陌生人非常快就能变成熟人、朋友,甚至关系还能更进一步。我尊重那些不嫌麻烦、积极认识陌生人的人。
4.They’re Honest - I have profound respect for those people who I can tell something to and trust that they won’t pass that information on without my consent.
4.诚实——我特别尊重那些我能跟他们说些事、而且确定他们不会未经我允许就到处乱说的人。
5.They Work Their Tail Off - There are people with super high motors that seem to constantly be driven to achieve something new. These individuals receive tremendous respect from me.
5.拼命工作——有的人像打了鸡血一样,仿佛不断被驱使着获得新的收获,这类人遭到我很大的尊重。
6.They Pay it Forward - I respect those who have been blessed financially and contribute a good portion of their wealth back into society.
6.传递爱——我尊重那些运势好、非常有钱、而且还会把一部分财富回报给社会的人。
7.The Way They Treat Their Significant Other -When I see an older gentleman hold the door for his wife or pull out the chair for her when sitting down, it warms my heart and I immediately respect him on a whole new level.
7.对待爱人的方法——当我看到一位老先生为老婆开着门,或落座时为她拉出椅子,我的心感觉非常温暖,对他的敬意立刻加深了一层。
8.The Professional Position They Hold - If I meet the General Manager of the Houston Astros, I’m going to have respect for him because I’ve got a hunch of everything he’s gone through to get to where he’s at today.
8.所在职位——假如我见到休斯顿太空人队的总经理,我会非常尊重他,由于我能感觉到他历程了不少才到了今天的地方。
9.They Say Something Unpopular Because it Needs to be Said - I’m sure many of you have that friend or family member that never hesitates to say something, despite the awkwardness. I love these people.
9.必要时会说不受青睐的话——我确定不少人都有如此的朋友或家人,他们心直口快,即便有时难免尴尬,但我喜欢如此的人。
10.The way they treat service staff - So many people treat service industry workers like lesser humans. As if what they do is meaningless and mindless. And that could not be further from the truth. We all should be cognizant of the way we treat the lady working the cash register or the young man bagging our groceries…because it says a lot more about who we are than who they are!
10.对待员工的态度——不少人感觉服务行业的人低人一等,仿佛他们所做的都是无意义的不需要动脑的工作,这种态度真是大错特错。大家都要注意自己对待收银台的女性、或者帮大家把东西服袋的年轻小伙的态度,由于大家的态度并不是是在体现他们的人品,而是在非常大程度上说明了大家自己是哪种人。
(翻译:菲菲)