职场上的同事们都期望能在办公室里获得看重，从而得到提高和涨薪。但并非一味的引人注意就能获得看重和大伙的尊敬，有时候都要讲究原则。
1. Know what you believe in and stick to it. Nothing loses other's respect quicker than inconsistency.
了解并坚持我们的想法。左右摇摆会叫你在其他人心目中的形象大优惠扣。
2. Keep your distance. Be friendly but not over-familiar. Don't confide1 intimate details to your colleagues.
维持距离，友好却不要太亲近，不要向同事袒露太私人的生活细节。
3. Keep your business to yourself. Don't share all your problems. Even if you resolve them you'll have left the impression that you're indecisive or unable to cope with pressure.
我们的事情自己做，不要事无巨细都向同事请教。由于即便你已经饩隽宋侍猓?慊故腔岣?擞湃峁讯匣蛭薹?娑匝沽牟涣加蟆?
4. Don't ask anyone to do anything you wouldn't do yourself.
连自己都不想做的事情就不要麻烦其他人去做。
5. Communicate-simply and often.
常常与同事进行简单的交流。
6. Keep your eyes on the objective.
一直盯住你的目的。
7. Don't get drawn2 into colleagues' personal lives.
不要纠缠于同事的私生活活中。
8. Keep cool. Don't respond instantly or say yes to everything.
维持冷静，对听到的什么事情不要立刻表态。
9. Keep your head. A calm presence is an invaluable3 asset.
维持理智，镇定是你工作获胜的秘籍。
10. Be good at your job. Know that you're good. Self-respect is the key. It'll show up in the way people deal with you.
做好你的工作，相信自己能胜任。自信是重点，这也会干扰到大家对你的态度。
11. Accept that you can't please all the people all the time-or even some of the people all of the time.
承认这个事实：你不可以一直让所有些人认可，甚至是总让一部分人认可都非常难
